יום ד Date: 12 Nisan, 5775 (4/1/15) – Kesuvos#58 {Eliezer}

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RECIPROCAL ROUTINES

[58b top] Ritva: Even when a husband is not obligated to support his wife, he still is required to help heal her if she needs it.

D-E-ep Thoughts: A marriage must not be viewed as a cold baggage of “business deals.” It should also not be a tit-for-tat relationship. If people feel they are ‘owed’ things because of the energy they have already expended, they are completely missing the boat. We must not look back at previous records, nor look ahead of what we plan to do in the future. We must live in the moment and accomplish what we can by giving of ourselves completely for the other party in the present.