{"id":944,"date":"2014-08-22T04:35:36","date_gmt":"2014-08-22T04:35:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/?p=944"},"modified":"2014-08-27T04:36:54","modified_gmt":"2014-08-27T04:36:54","slug":"%d7%99%d7%95%d7%9d-%d7%95-date-26-av-5774-82214-moedkatan11-eliezer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/?p=944","title":{"rendered":"\u05d9\u05d5\u05dd \u05d5 Date: 26 Av, 5774 (8\/22\/14) \u2013 MoedKatan#11 {Eliezer}"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">The BLAME Game<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>[11a middle] <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">R\u2019 Chisda<\/span>: When the Gemarah explains that on Chol Hamoed one may not bang with a hammer if it produces a loud noise (and disrupts the spiritual environment of the Holy Day), how can we distinguish these from the permissible quieter sounds? <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Shearim Mitzyonim beHalachah<\/span>: It is difficult to say which exactly is termed loud versus quiet because people will claim that their individual noises are not disruptive. <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">R\u2019 Rosner<\/span>: It is human nature for us to be defensive and blame everyone else for really having the problems and not look inwards at ourselves.<\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"color: #339966;\"><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">E\u2019s Lesson<\/span><\/strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"> (based on R\u2019 Shalom Arush)<\/span>: We must remember that (even though other people have their own free will) every challenge that comes our way is for us to be able to grow and perfect our souls further. We should never try to place blame outwards in hopes of a solution. We must always try to fix ourselves to correct a problematic situation (which is why Hashem gave it to us in the first place).<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The BLAME Game [11a middle] R\u2019 Chisda: When the Gemarah explains that on Chol Hamoed one may not bang with a hammer if it produces a loud noise (and disrupts the spiritual environment of the Holy Day), how can we distinguish these from the permissible quieter sounds? Shearim Mitzyonim beHalachah: &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[13,7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-944","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-gemarah-moedkatan","category-l4l-by-eliezer","column","twocol"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/944","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=944"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/944\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":945,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/944\/revisions\/945"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=944"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=944"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=944"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}