{"id":931,"date":"2014-08-19T14:36:03","date_gmt":"2014-08-19T14:36:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/?p=931"},"modified":"2014-08-24T14:36:09","modified_gmt":"2014-08-24T14:36:09","slug":"%d7%99%d7%95%d7%9d-%d7%92-date-23-av-5774-81914-moedkatan8-tani","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/?p=931","title":{"rendered":"\u05d9\u05d5\u05dd \u05d2 Date: 23 Av, 5774 (8\/19\/14) \u2013 MoedKatan#8 {Tani}"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Intermingling Occasions<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>[8b bottom] <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Mishna<\/span>: A man is prohibited from marrying a woman on Chol Hamoed because it is a source of joy for him. <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">R\u2019 Yehuda quoting Shmuel and R\u2019 Elazar quoting R\u2019 Oshaya (some say R\u2019 Elazar quoting R\u2019 Chanina)<\/span>: This is not allowed because we do not intermingle one joyous occasion with another joyous one. A person should be completely devoted to the joy of the holiday, and not to minimize it by devoting joy to other events.<\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>T&#8217;s Lesson<\/strong><\/span>: <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Koheles<\/span>: &#8220;There is a time for everything: a time to laugh, a time to cry&#8230; &#8221; (and \u00a0a time to be joyous) among many other things. Each occasion is deserving of one\u2019s complete attention as each Simcha is unique and special. We should try to avoid \u2018joint wedding ceremonies\u2019 (unless there is a need for it, or when others cannot afford their own celebrations) and \u2018drive-thru concepts\u2019, which sully potentially beautiful events by hurrying and cheapening a holy marriage union. We should always be sure to independently celebrate Simchas and keep each one special in its unique appropriate time.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Intermingling Occasions [8b bottom] Mishna: A man is prohibited from marrying a woman on Chol Hamoed because it is a source of joy for him. R\u2019 Yehuda quoting Shmuel and R\u2019 Elazar quoting R\u2019 Oshaya (some say R\u2019 Elazar quoting R\u2019 Chanina): This is not allowed because we do not &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[13,8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-931","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-gemarah-moedkatan","category-l4l-by-tani","column","twocol"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/931","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=931"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/931\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":933,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/931\/revisions\/933"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=931"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=931"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=931"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}