{"id":3339,"date":"2016-11-23T05:52:39","date_gmt":"2016-11-23T05:52:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/?p=3339"},"modified":"2016-12-01T05:52:44","modified_gmt":"2016-12-01T05:52:44","slug":"%d7%99%d7%95%d7%9d-%d7%93-date-22-cheshvan-5776-112316-bava-metzia-daf-58-tani-guterman","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/?p=3339","title":{"rendered":"\u05d9\u05d5\u05dd \u05d3  Date: 22 Cheshvan, 5776 (11\/23\/16) \u2013 Bava Metzia Daf 58 ~ Tani Guterman"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">WRONGING WORDS<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">[58b middle] <\/span><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mishnah<\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">: Just as there is wronging in \u2018buying and selling,\u2019 so too is there wronging with words.<br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Gemarah<\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">: One should not say to a penitent, &#8220;Remember your past deeds..&#8221; or to a child of a convert, &#8220;Remember the deeds of your forefathers&#8230;&#8221;<br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">R\u2019 Rosner points quoting R\u2019 Pam<\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">: Even though we are more careful about <\/span><em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Lashon Hara<\/span><\/em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> (evil speak) and <\/span><em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Shmiras Halashon<\/span><\/em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> (watching our language) thanks to the Chafetz Chaim, we still need much more work and awareness on the current problems of insulting and making fun of people, known as <\/span><em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cOna\u2019as Devarim\u201d<\/span><\/em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> [as the Gemarah points out].<\/span><\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>Prac-T-cal Tidbits<\/strong><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">: Unfortunately, people in modern society find it \u2018acceptable\u2019 to insult others with hurtful words (especially if it advances their own statuses). We need to be extremely careful with what we say because once the words come out of our mouths, they can completely alter relationships for long into the future (and are very hard to take back\/undo).<\/span><\/span><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>WRONGING WORDS [58b middle] Mishnah: Just as there is wronging in \u2018buying and selling,\u2019 so too is there wronging with words. Gemarah: One should not say to a penitent, &#8220;Remember your past deeds..&#8221; or to a child of a convert, &#8220;Remember the deeds of your forefathers&#8230;&#8221; R\u2019 Rosner points quoting &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[22,8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3339","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-gemarah-bava-metzia","category-l4l-by-tani","column","twocol"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3339","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3339"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3339\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3341,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3339\/revisions\/3341"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3339"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3339"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3339"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}