{"id":2987,"date":"2016-03-17T04:28:29","date_gmt":"2016-03-17T04:28:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/?p=2987"},"modified":"2016-04-19T04:29:27","modified_gmt":"2016-04-19T04:29:27","slug":"%d7%99%d7%95%d7%9d-%d7%94-date-7-adar-ii-5776-31716-kidushin-daf-6-eliezer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/?p=2987","title":{"rendered":"\u05d9\u05d5\u05dd \u05d4 Date: 7 Adar II, 5776 (3\/17\/16) \u2013 Kidushin Daf 6 {Eliezer}"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">HURTING HELPERS<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">[6a top] <\/span><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Gemarah<\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">: If a man says, \u201cYou are <\/span><em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ezrasi<\/span><\/em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> (my helper)\u201d or \u201cYou are <\/span><em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Negdasi<\/span><\/em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> (my opposition),\u201d these are questionable verbiages and it is not known if they actually affect a marriage.<br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Breishis [Perek2Pasuk18]<\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">: Hashem uses these same two terminologies of <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0\u05e2\u05b5\u05d6\u05b6\u05e8 \u05db\u05b0\u05bc\u05e0\u05b6\u05d2\u05b0\u05d3\u05bc\u05d5\u05b9<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u201cI will make a helper opposite him.\u201d<br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">R\u2019 Rosner explaining Nitziv<\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">: The best helpers in life are the ones that give us opposition. We always need compliments, not replicas, to help us succeed. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"color: #339966;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>D-E-ep Thoughts<\/strong><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">: [Since all things in our lives are only direct messages from G-d] Whenever we receive criticisms (especially from our spouses), we should recognize that they are only with love and to help us grow. If we constantly just had \u2018yes-men\u2019 complimenting all our actions, we would never achieve greatness. The best teachers, Rabbis, and friends are able to help point out our flaws and assist in redirecting our attentions properly.<\/span><\/span><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>HURTING HELPERS [6a top] Gemarah: If a man says, \u201cYou are Ezrasi (my helper)\u201d or \u201cYou are Negdasi (my opposition),\u201d these are questionable verbiages and it is not known if they actually affect a marriage. Breishis [Perek2Pasuk18]: Hashem uses these same two terminologies of \u00a0\u05e2\u05b5\u05d6\u05b6\u05e8 \u05db\u05b0\u05bc\u05e0\u05b6\u05d2\u05b0\u05d3\u05bc\u05d5\u05b9 \u201cI will make a &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[20,7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2987","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-gemarah-kidushin","category-l4l-by-eliezer","column","twocol"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2987","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2987"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2987\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2988,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2987\/revisions\/2988"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2987"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2987"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2987"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}