{"id":2034,"date":"2015-04-24T02:32:36","date_gmt":"2015-04-24T02:32:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/?p=2034"},"modified":"2015-11-04T13:57:22","modified_gmt":"2015-11-04T13:57:22","slug":"%d7%99%d7%95%d7%9d-%d7%95-date-5-iyar-5775-42414-kesuvos81-tani","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/?p=2034","title":{"rendered":"\u05d9\u05d5\u05dd \u05d5 Date: 5 Iyar, 5775 (4\/24\/15) \u2013 Kesuvos#81 {Tani}"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">PERSUASION POWER<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>[81a bottom] <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Braisa<\/span>: R\u2019 Abba asked Sumchos how a <em>Yavam<\/em> (who performed <em>Yebum<\/em> with his deceased brother\u2019s wife) who wishes to reacquire the property of his brother, could gain it back. Sumchos explained that if he is a Kohen he should make her a lavish feast and try to persuade her.<br \/>\n<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Rashi<\/span>: Since he can not divorce her, sell the land, and then remarry her (because he is a Kohen, and restricted from marrying a divorc\u00e9e), he should rather lighten her mood and \u00a0cajole her.<\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>Prac-T-cal Tidbits<\/strong><\/span>: When we are trying to close any deal or make an exchange, we have to know how to properly handle the other parties involved. We should never force issues or opinions on others. We need to sit down, like Mentches, and discuss ideas over dinner, while presenting our cases in polite, gentle, yet convincing manners. This applies both in the business world and within our immediate families. We should always keep calm and deliver relaxed approaches without losing our tempers or controls, when trying to get our messages across.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>PERSUASION POWER [81a bottom] Braisa: R\u2019 Abba asked Sumchos how a Yavam (who performed Yebum with his deceased brother\u2019s wife) who wishes to reacquire the property of his brother, could gain it back. Sumchos explained that if he is a Kohen he should make her a lavish feast and try &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[17,8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2034","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-gemarah-kesuvos","category-l4l-by-tani","column","twocol"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2034","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2034"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2034\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2355,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2034\/revisions\/2355"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2034"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2034"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2034"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}