{"id":1963,"date":"2015-04-10T13:11:41","date_gmt":"2015-04-10T13:11:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/?p=1963"},"modified":"2015-11-04T13:54:34","modified_gmt":"2015-11-04T13:54:34","slug":"%d7%99%d7%95%d7%9d-%d7%95-date-21-nisan-5775-41014-kesuvos67-tani","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/?p=1963","title":{"rendered":"\u05d9\u05d5\u05dd \u05d5 Date: 21 Nisan, 5775 (4\/10\/15) \u2013 Kesuvos#67 {Tani}"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">FIERY SHAME <\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>[67b bottom] <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Mar Ukva and his wife<\/span> both jumped into a fiery furnace (when being chased by a poor person who wanted to find and thank his supporters), rather than embarrass a pauper. [Mar Ukva\u2019s feet started burning and his wife told him to place them on her\u2019s (which did not burn, because she prepared ready-made food for the poor at home; a higher level of support).]<br \/>\n<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Mar Zutra bar Toviah quoting Rav or Rav Huna bar Bizna quoting R\u2019 Shimon Chasida or Rav Yochanan quoting R\u2019 Shimon ben Yochai<\/span>: \u201cIt is better that a person should surrender oneself into a fiery furnace, rather than publicly put a neighbor to shame.\u201d Even Tamar was willing to be burned rather than put her father-in-law to shame [as she chose to send him cryptic signs which led to Yehudah\u2019s own confession that saved her life (after becoming pregnant from him)].<br \/>\n<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Artscroll notes [Shaarei Teshuvah 3:139\/Tosafos to Sotah 10b]<\/span>: The pain one experiences by being shamed in public is often greater than that of death itself; just as one is required to give up his life rather than kill another Jew, so must he forfeit his life before embarrassing someone.<\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Prac-T-cal Tidbits<\/span><\/strong>: We must always strive to avoid shaming everyone around us, especially in public. Nowadays, many cultures and political figures thrive on putting others down. We must be extra sensitive to these matters in our times and envision the flames that can potentially burn other peoples\u2019 homes and lives down.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>FIERY SHAME [67b bottom] Mar Ukva and his wife both jumped into a fiery furnace (when being chased by a poor person who wanted to find and thank his supporters), rather than embarrass a pauper. [Mar Ukva\u2019s feet started burning and his wife told him to place them on her\u2019s &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[17,8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1963","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-gemarah-kesuvos","category-l4l-by-tani","column","twocol"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1963","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1963"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1963\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2327,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1963\/revisions\/2327"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1963"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1963"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1963"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}