{"id":1961,"date":"2015-04-10T13:08:36","date_gmt":"2015-04-10T13:08:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/?p=1961"},"modified":"2015-11-04T13:54:30","modified_gmt":"2015-11-04T13:54:30","slug":"%d7%99%d7%95%d7%9d-%d7%95-date-21-nisan-5775-41014-kesuvos67-eliezer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/?p=1961","title":{"rendered":"\u05d9\u05d5\u05dd \u05d5 Date: 21 Nisan, 5775 (4\/10\/15) \u2013 Kesuvos#67 {Eliezer}"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">SELF REFLECTIONS<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>[67b top] <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Torah [Bereishis 2:18]<\/span>: \u05d0\u05b6\u05e2\u05b1\u05e9\u05b6\u05c2\u05d4 \u05dc\u05bc\u05d5\u05b9 \u05e2\u05b5\u05d6\u05b6\u05e8 \u05db\u05b0\u05bc\u05e0\u05b6\u05d2\u05b0\u05d3\u05bc\u05d5\u05b9 (I shall make him a helpmate \u201copposite\u201d him).<br \/>\n<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">R\u2019 Hirsch &amp; Nitziv<\/span>: The best type of \u2018helper\u2019 is someone that is opposite to an individual. They must not only be able to complement each other, but also to help fix one another.<br \/>\n<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">R\u2019 Shalom Arush<\/span>: Our marriage partners act as reflections in mirrors of ourselves, so that we can be able to recognize what is wrong within us [plus, it is usually done in an explosively ballistic manner to get us to wake up and receive the message].<\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"color: #339966;\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong>D-E-ep Thoughts<\/strong><\/span>: A key rule to remember (from Uriel Schrier): Whatever faults we find in others, are (most likely) what is really wrong within ourselves. Instead of criticizing others, we should use every interaction as an opportunity to look inward and \u2018reflect and correct\u2019 ourselves.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>SELF REFLECTIONS [67b top] Torah [Bereishis 2:18]: \u05d0\u05b6\u05e2\u05b1\u05e9\u05b6\u05c2\u05d4 \u05dc\u05bc\u05d5\u05b9 \u05e2\u05b5\u05d6\u05b6\u05e8 \u05db\u05b0\u05bc\u05e0\u05b6\u05d2\u05b0\u05d3\u05bc\u05d5\u05b9 (I shall make him a helpmate \u201copposite\u201d him). R\u2019 Hirsch &amp; Nitziv: The best type of \u2018helper\u2019 is someone that is opposite to an individual. They must not only be able to complement each other, but also to help &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[17,7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1961","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-gemarah-kesuvos","category-l4l-by-eliezer","column","twocol"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1961","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1961"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1961\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2326,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1961\/revisions\/2326"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1961"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1961"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1961"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}