{"id":1886,"date":"2015-03-26T03:41:36","date_gmt":"2015-03-26T03:41:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/?p=1886"},"modified":"2015-11-04T13:50:50","modified_gmt":"2015-11-04T13:50:50","slug":"%d7%99%d7%95%d7%9d-%d7%94-date-6-nisan-5775-32614-kesuvos52-tani","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/?p=1886","title":{"rendered":"\u05d9\u05d5\u05dd \u05d4 Date: 6 Nisan, 5775 (3\/26\/15) \u2013 Kesuvos#52 {Tani}"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">CLOSE CHOICES<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>[52b middle] <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Rav Yochanan&#8217;s relatives<\/span> had a widow of their father who needed healing treatments everyday. R\u2019 Yochanan advised them to, &#8216;fix a set price with a doctor,&#8217; [and one lump sum is not a \u2018constant support\u2019 requirement (and the relatives would not be obliged to continue paying)]. R\u2019 Yochanan later lamented that, &#8216;we made ourselves like lawyers.&#8221; Originally, he thought to help ease a burden from his relatives, &#8216;and from your kin you shall not hide yourself,&#8217; but then he concluded that a prominent person (like himself) may not use this leniency (and not advise his relatives as such).<\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Prac-T-cal Tidbits<\/span><\/strong>: We must always be extremely careful when advising relatives. Even \u2018help\u2019 may involve biased opinions when dealing with those who are close to us. We should try to view our situations from an outsider\u2019s perspective, and carefully analyze microscopic nuances with magnifying lenses.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>CLOSE CHOICES [52b middle] Rav Yochanan&#8217;s relatives had a widow of their father who needed healing treatments everyday. R\u2019 Yochanan advised them to, &#8216;fix a set price with a doctor,&#8217; [and one lump sum is not a \u2018constant support\u2019 requirement (and the relatives would not be obliged to continue paying)]. &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[17,8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1886","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-gemarah-kesuvos","category-l4l-by-tani","column","twocol"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1886","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1886"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1886\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2297,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1886\/revisions\/2297"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1886"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1886"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1886"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}