{"id":1869,"date":"2015-03-23T21:08:20","date_gmt":"2015-03-23T21:08:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/?p=1869"},"modified":"2015-11-04T13:50:01","modified_gmt":"2015-11-04T13:50:01","slug":"%d7%99%d7%95%d7%9d-%d7%91-date-3-nisan-5775-32314-kesuvos49-eliezer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/?p=1869","title":{"rendered":"\u05d9\u05d5\u05dd \u05d1 Date: 3 Nisan, 5775 (3\/23\/15) \u2013 Kesuvos#49 {Eliezer}"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">UPSIDE-DOWN FROWNS<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>[49b top] <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">R\u2019 Il\u0092a quoting Reish Lakish quoting R\u2019 Yehudah bar Chanina<\/span>: In Usha, they decreed that a person must support his sons and daughters while they are minors. But if feeding children is a form of <em>Tzedakah<\/em> (charity), we may not force anyone to do so [since there is a reward of G-d\u2019s blessings associated with it (see <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">GM\u2019 Chullin [110]<\/span>)]!?<br \/>\n<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Minchas Chinuch<\/span>: The real way to get credit for the <em>Mitzvah<\/em> is to give <em>Tzedakah<\/em> with a smile on one\u2019s face. Since when we force someone to do so they are not happy about it, there is no violation of the previously recorded rule.<\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"color: #339966;\"><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">D-E-ep Thoughts<\/span><\/strong>: Many times people are not happy about doing things (even Mitzvos) and want to just \u201cget it over with.\u201d Not only do they upset others around them and create a negative emotional feedback loop, but they may also completely miss the \u2018credit\u2019 that they were hoping for. We should always focus on serving G-d and others \u2018BeSimcha\u2019 (in happiness and joy) with huge smiles on our faces. We should not think, \u201cI have to\u2026\u201d but rather I am privileged because, \u201cI get to\u2026\u201d<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>UPSIDE-DOWN FROWNS [49b top] R\u2019 Il\u0092a quoting Reish Lakish quoting R\u2019 Yehudah bar Chanina: In Usha, they decreed that a person must support his sons and daughters while they are minors. But if feeding children is a form of Tzedakah (charity), we may not force anyone to do so [since &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[17,7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1869","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-gemarah-kesuvos","category-l4l-by-eliezer","column","twocol"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1869","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1869"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1869\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2290,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1869\/revisions\/2290"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1869"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1869"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1869"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}