{"id":1767,"date":"2015-03-03T12:57:32","date_gmt":"2015-03-03T12:57:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/?p=1767"},"modified":"2015-11-04T13:45:43","modified_gmt":"2015-11-04T13:45:43","slug":"%d7%99%d7%95%d7%9d-%d7%92-date-12-adar-5775-3314-kesuvos29-eliezer","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/?p=1767","title":{"rendered":"\u05d9\u05d5\u05dd \u05d2 Date: 12 Adar, 5775 (3\/3\/15) \u2013 Kesuvos#29 {Eliezer}"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">FEARFUL COMMITMENTS<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>[29a top] <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Mishna<\/span>: If a man violated a \u2018Kusi\u2019 <em>Naarah<\/em> (12-12 \u00bd yrs old), the girl\u2019s father is owed penalty monies. Rashi: \u2018Kusim\u2019 are <em>\u201cGeyrei Arayos\u201d<\/em> (lion converts) who are not considered \u201ctrue (Jewish) converts,\u201d [G-d sent lions after these people for acting inappropriately, and out of fear they ran to the Jewish nation and \u2018converted\u2019 to be saved].<br \/>\n<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">R\u2019 Rosner<\/span>: On the other hand, if one converts because of improper ideals (ie: out of love for a future spouse), even though it was completed with inappropriate intentions, the conversion is deemed (post facto) completely valid (as it at least entailed a proper commitment).<\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"color: #339966;\"><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">D-E-ep Thoughts<\/span><\/strong>: There is a huge difference in commitments based on fear versus love. Fear is an extreme emotional motivator, but when the worry dissipates the level of devotion may fade as well. Allegiances based on love are much more likely to remain loyal as responsibility comes from positive energies and not distressors. We should all strive to obtain real true everlasting resolutions in life, with G-d, our spouses, and all our friends.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>FEARFUL COMMITMENTS [29a top] Mishna: If a man violated a \u2018Kusi\u2019 Naarah (12-12 \u00bd yrs old), the girl\u2019s father is owed penalty monies. Rashi: \u2018Kusim\u2019 are \u201cGeyrei Arayos\u201d (lion converts) who are not considered \u201ctrue (Jewish) converts,\u201d [G-d sent lions after these people for acting inappropriately, and out of fear &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[17,7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1767","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-gemarah-kesuvos","category-l4l-by-eliezer","column","twocol"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1767","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1767"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1767\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2251,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1767\/revisions\/2251"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1767"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1767"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1767"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}