{"id":1626,"date":"2015-02-06T20:27:08","date_gmt":"2015-02-06T20:27:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/?p=1626"},"modified":"2015-11-04T13:39:52","modified_gmt":"2015-11-04T13:39:52","slug":"%d7%99%d7%95%d7%9d-%d7%95-date-17-shevat-5775-2614-kesuvos4-tani","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/?p=1626","title":{"rendered":"\u05d9\u05d5\u05dd \u05d5 Date: 17 Shevat, 5775 (2\/6\/15) \u2013 Kesuvos#4 {Tani}"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">TRUE COMMISERATION<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>[4b bottom] <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Gemarah<\/span>: A spouse observes the laws of mourning along with the other spouse if there was a loss of a close relative (<em>lo aleinu, <\/em>we should never know from such things) in the actual house of mourning, out of respect for the spouse. Similarly <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Rav<\/span> told R\u2019 Chiya his son, when R\u2019 Chiya\u2019s father-in-law passed away, that in his wife\u2019s presence, he should observe the laws of mourning [but not necessitated when he was away from her presence (either physically in front of her, in the same house, or in the same city)]. Ritva: Nowadays, we do not apply this stringency.<\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Prac-T-cal Tidbits<\/span><\/strong>: We should always be concerned and worried to partake in our spouse&#8217;s respect and honor. We should always make sure to respect them and honor them in all situations. We must take care of all of their wants and needs; specifically to also make them feel respected like a king\/queen always. <\/span><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>TRUE COMMISERATION [4b bottom] Gemarah: A spouse observes the laws of mourning along with the other spouse if there was a loss of a close relative (lo aleinu, we should never know from such things) in the actual house of mourning, out of respect for the spouse. Similarly Rav told &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[17,8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1626","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-gemarah-kesuvos","category-l4l-by-tani","column","twocol"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1626","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1626"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1626\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2202,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1626\/revisions\/2202"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1626"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1626"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dailydoseofdaf.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1626"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}